What to say when he texts sounds good let me know
He said sounds good and left the plan open. Here's how to turn it into a specific date he can say yes to, and when to stop waiting on him.
He agreed to the idea but didn't pick a day or time, so the plan is still floating and the next move is yours. Replying with a question like 'what works for you?' just sends the job back to him. What you need is a reply that makes the plan concrete enough for him to accept with one word.
A good reply does three things at once. It names the plan you already discussed, proposes one specific day and window, and makes saying yes the easiest option. It also keeps the tone matched to his, because he sent a short casual line and a long, anxious reply makes the plan look bigger than he made it.
If he still doesn't commit after that, the vague line was a signal about his effort. The goal is to find out quickly whether this is going to happen, without chasing him through three messages.

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Read the vague line against the rest of the thread
Treat the line as him handing the decision back to you. He agreed to the idea but didn't name a day, so the plan is still floating. Sometimes that's just how someone texts. Sometimes he's happy to go along with whatever you suggest, and sometimes he's waiting to see if you'll commit before he does. Look at the rest of the thread before deciding which one it is. If he's been asking you questions and picking up the conversation quickly, the phrase is probably lazy wording and nothing more. If your last few messages got one word replies, he may be checking whether you'll lead.
Either way, don't read it as a rejection. He said yes to the plan. What's missing is a date, and that's a logistics gap you can close in one message.
Give him one date he can say yes to
The move is to turn the open plan into a specific proposal he can accept with a single word. Name a day, a rough time window, and a place you'd actually go to. Offer one option, not two or three, because a menu hands the choosing right back to him. Put the plan in the first line so he sees it before anything else. Keep the length close to his, since a short casual line followed by a paragraph reads like you're treating a loose idea as a formal meeting.
Also confirm the part you both already agreed on. If he said drinks sounded good, the message should be about drinks. Skip the explanation for why you chose that night, and skip asking how he feels about it. Your job is to make the next step obvious enough that he doesn't have to think about it.
If the plan goes quiet after you pick
Send your proposal during the day, when he's likely to be between things and able to glance at his phone. Late night plan messages tend to get pushed to morning and then forgotten. Give him about a day to answer. If nothing comes back, send one light follow up that refers to the same plan and adds a small new detail, like the place or the time. Don't stack messages or ask whether he's still interested, because that puts the focus on his feelings instead of the plan.
If he answers with another vague line, don't reopen the menu. Restate the same date once and let him respond to that. If he still won't name a time after that, the plan has stalled and you can let it go without a drawn out explanation. His response to a clear proposal is the most useful information you'll get.
Why these replies fail
“Sure, whatever works for you! Just let me know 😊”
It hands the decision straight back to him and mirrors the exact problem you're trying to fix.
“Ok so are you actually coming or not? You kind of left it hanging”
It turns a simple planning gap into a complaint about his effort, which makes a yes harder to give.
“Thursday or Friday, or we can do next week if you're busy, or I'm flexible”
Three options plus a fallback gives him nothing concrete to accept, so he just says whichever is convenient later.
Common mistakes
- Offering three or four options, which hands the decision straight back to him
- Asking whether he's still interested instead of proposing an actual date
- Writing a long message that explains why you picked that night
- Following up two or three times in one day after a single vague reply
Questions people ask
- Does sounds good let me know mean he's not into it?
- Not usually. It usually means he agreed to the idea and is fine with whatever you pick, but he isn't doing the planning work. Some people text like this all the time. The more useful signal is what he does after you propose a specific date. If he replies quickly and warmly, the vague line was just a habit. If he keeps stalling even after you name a time, that tells you more than the wording did.
- How long should I wait before I follow up?
- Give it about a day, which is long enough for a normal reply without looking eager. If it's been longer and he's gone quiet, send one short follow up that restates the plan. Two unanswered messages in a row is a clear enough answer for most people, and a third usually makes the plan feel heavier than it was.
- Should I just pick a day myself?
- Yes, but pick one day and one window, then ask for a yes. Choosing a specific option is what moves the plan forward, and offering several makes him do the work again. Tie it to something he already said he liked, like the place or the kind of thing he suggested. You can stay flexible on the exact time once he replies, so the choice you make now only has to be good enough to say yes to.
- What if he replies with another vague message?
- Restate the plan once, with the same day and time, and make it easy to say yes. Don't add new options or ask why he's being unclear. If he still avoids naming a time, you have your answer about how much he wants this to happen. You don't need to confront him about it, and you don't need to keep reworking the message until he commits.
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