OkCupid opener ideas
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32 ideas
- 1
I matched you on the question about Sunday mornings. I need the actual version of yours.
- 2
Your essay mentioned the neighborhood. I know a better coffee than the obvious one.
- 3
You wrote more than three sentences. Rare. The travel bit: last trip or the next one you want?
- 4
The match percentage is high on the food questions. That is a date, not a statistic.
- 5
I liked the honest answer about kids. Most people dodge it. Hi.
- 6
Your profile is long enough that hey would be rude. The book. Still on it?
- 7
You said you want someone who texts back. I can do that. Start with the hiking line.
- 8
The photo with the sign in the background. Is that a regular spot?
- 9
I disagreed with you on one question and agreed on twelve. We can fight about the one.
- 10
You mentioned moving here. What is the thing you cannot find yet?
- 11
The self-summary is actually a summary. Thank you. Favorite weeknight?
- 12
I will not write you an essay back. One question from your prompts: the music one.
- 13
You said you are better in person. That is a dare. Coffee this week?
- 14
The politics answers were clear. I am not here to debate. I am here about the pasta line.
- 15
Your dog has a name in the profile. I respect the priorities.
- 16
You asked for someone curious. Fine. What is the last thing you went too deep on?
- 17
I skipped the copy-paste opener. Your answer about family dinners did that.
- 18
The six-things list has one I also do. Not telling you which until you guess.
- 19
You wrote that you overthink texts. Same. That is why this one is short.
- 20
The city you listed as home is not the one in the photos. Which is current?
- 21
I liked that you said what you are looking for without a speech. Same page.
- 22
Your typical Friday sounds better than mine. Can I steal it or join it?
- 23
The question about last-minute plans. I am a yes. Are you?
- 24
You mentioned a show I actually finished. No spoilers. Worth a rewatch?
- 25
This is the rare profile that does not need a roast. Just a first message.
- 26
You said no games. Good. Thursday, early evening, public place.
- 27
I read the dealbreakers. I am still here. The cooking line is the reason.
- 28
Your essays have a voice. Most do not. Keep going in chat?
- 29
The photo at the market. Are you the list person or the wanderer?
- 30
You asked a question in the profile and nobody ever answers those. I will: yes, walk over drinks.
- 31
Match questions aside, the bio is the opener. You like rain. Same.
- 32
I will keep this shorter than your profile. One plan: coffee, this week.
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