She stopped replying after three dates? What to do next

Look at the last thing she sent before things went quiet. If she suggested plans, asked you a question, or sent something that needed an answer, the gap is probably a scheduling problem or a sudden wobble, and one light reply can get things moving again. If her last message was short, a thumbs up, or a vague 'talk soon' that came after you already reached out, she may have already decided, and the silence is her answer. Also check who sent the final message in the whole thread. If you have sent several texts in a row with nothing back, she is not ignoring you so much as not matching your pace yet.

Think about how the third date ended too. A clear plan for next time followed by a quiet week points to logistics. A warm but vague 'we should do this again' with no follow through usually means she is unsure.

Pick one specific thing from your last date or her last message and bring it back up. A detail she mentioned, like a restaurant she wants to try or a friend's wedding she is dreading, gives her something she can answer without deciding anything big. Keep the ask small and time bound, such as a question she can answer in a few words or a plan that only needs a yes or no. Skip anything that asks her to explain herself. Questions about whether she is still into you, what happened, or why she disappeared put her on the defensive and make replying feel like an admission.

Keep your tone close to how you were on the date, which is lighter than you probably feel right now. If you are anxious, the text comes out heavy, and she reads that before she reads the content.

Start the clock from her last message, not yours. Give it at least three or four days before you send anything, since a busy week is the most common reason for a gap after a few dates. One follow up is reasonable. Send it during the day when she is likely to see it, not late at night when it reads as a lonely reach.

If that first message gets no answer, wait about a week before trying again, and do not send a second message that says the same thing in different words. A second message is only worth sending if it adds something new, like a specific invitation with a day attached. Once you have sent two messages with nothing back, stop. Silence after two tries is an answer, and continuing to message turns a closed door into a bad memory for both of you.