Text her without pushing to meet in person

Two weeks of texts with no movement toward meeting tells you something. She likes the attention but isn't interested in you romantically. She's actually interested but anxious about meeting strangers. Or she's deciding whether you're worth the effort and hasn't committed yet.

None of these situations get better by texting longer or harder. You need information. If she's been dodging for two weeks, she's already shown you her answer. The people who want to meet you don't need two weeks of convincing. They just say yes or they say they're busy and offer an alternative time. Watch for that pattern.

Don't hint or edge toward the subject. Bring it up once, clearly, and listen to what she actually says back. No sarcasm, no pleading. Just: 'I'm enjoying talking with you. I'd like to grab coffee this weekend if you're interested.' Then see what happens.

If she says yes or gives a real reason why she can't but suggests another time, she's interested. If she deflects, says she's not ready, or responds with a question that avoids the topic, she's not. You're looking for a direct answer, not an apology or an excuse. Her reply tells you whether to keep texting casually, wait and re-approach later, or move on.

If she said yes, make the plan within 24 hours and then stop asking questions about it until two days before. If she dodged or said no, don't bring it up again for at least two weeks, if at all. Asking twice in a month reads as tone-deaf.

If she never responds to your direct ask, assume no. Don't send a follow-up text like 'Hey, did you see my last message.' She saw it. No response is the response. You can text her casually again in three weeks if you want, but don't expect a different answer just because you waited.