Text her when she engages but won't suggest meeting up

A back and forth that goes on for days or weeks can feel like momentum when it's actually stalling. She's comfortable texting you. It's easier for her than meeting someone new in person. Low stakes. No awkwardness. She can reply whenever.

Read the pattern instead of the tone. If a week has passed and she hasn't mentioned meeting, she's not going to on her own. That doesn't mean she dislikes you. It means this is fine for her as is. The conversation is the goal, not the setup for a date. You need to name the move she won't make.

Stop asking 'would you want to' or 'do you think maybe.' Those sound conditional. Instead, propose something specific and casual, and say it like you assume she'll say yes. Name a real place, a real time frame, and act like it's happening.

The move: you acknowledge something from your conversation (she mentioned liking coffee, you talked about a band, whatever), you pick a spot that fits that, and you tell her when. No question mark needed. No 'if you're free.' Just 'let's do this.' She either agrees or she doesn't. Either way you know where you stand instead of texting for another month.

Send your date proposal on a weekday afternoon, not late at night. Give her until the next evening to reply. If she flakes or ignores it, send one follow-up a few days later with a different time or place. That's it. Two attempts.

After that, stop. Stop texting her about meeting up. You can reply if she texts you, but don't bring it up again. You've made the move twice. If she wanted to see you she would have said yes. Spend that energy on someone who does.