Keep her texting when she's interested but won't commit to plans

There's a real difference between someone who's not interested and someone who's interested in talking but uncommitted about meeting. She's texting back. She's asking you questions or responding to what you say. The dodging only happens when plans get specific. This tells you she's not rejecting you outright. She's hesitating about the in-person part.

This hesitation can mean several things and you won't know which one without more data. Maybe she's actually busy or dealing with something. Maybe she's nervous about meeting. Maybe she likes the texting dynamic more than the idea of a real date. Maybe she's talking to other people and you're not at the top of the list. The only move that gets you useful information is to stay present in her texting life without forcing her hand.

When she dodges a date, don't pivot immediately back to logistics. Instead, drop the plan idea and respond to something else she said or move the conversation forward on a different thread. This accomplishes two things. First, it shows her you're not a one-dimensional guy who only texts to schedule meetups. Second, it gives her a low-pressure reason to keep writing back.

At the same time, you need to stay light on the gas pedal. Don't text her multiple times a day. Don't ask a bunch of questions that require effort to answer. Match her texting frequency roughly and keep replies short enough that she can text back in under a minute. You're keeping the door open, not launching a courtship campaign through text.

If you're doing this for more than a week or two, you're no longer building momentum. You're just talking. Give it a real window. Maybe four to six days of consistent texting where she's engaged but still dodging plans. After that, the pattern is clear and it's not going to change on its own.

When you hit that point, you can try one more direct ask about meeting up. Keep it simple and not needy. But if she dodges again, you're done. Don't text her again unless she reaches out first. She's had plenty of chances to say yes and she hasn't. Continuing to text her at that point isn't romantic persistence. It's just ignoring what she's already told you through her actions.